By SHMULEY BOTEACH, THE JERUSALEM POST Jul. 20,
2005 It is only four weeks since my children's school year ended,
but already my summer is ruined. This week I received by mail the tuition fee
schedule for my children's private Jewish day schools that I already owe for
next year. I'll withhold the exact amount because I don't want to give
you a coronary, but with seven children in private religious education, and with
tuition for Jewish day schools in America running at about $9,000 per child (and
that's with a discount), you can easily imagine the astronomical bill.
Still, I'm prepared to cover this huge sum because a religious and moral
education for my children is non-negotiable. But here's the rub. In
addition to the high tuition, which I struggle to meet, I am also required to
pay enormous property taxes – and in the mismanaged and profligate state
of New Jersey where I reside the property taxes are equally shock-inducing
– to cover the public school system my kids would be using if they were
not in parochial schools. That's right. The United States, alone among
the great democracies of the world, shows utter contempt for religious parents
by making them pay twice for their children's education, refusing to put
even a single dollar of their tax money toward their children's religious
schools. Now why should parents be penalized for wanting to give their
children a religious education? Is it a sin to teach children the need for
spirituality in life, to condition them to the sanctity of human life, and to
expose them to the great ethical code contained in the Ten Commandments? Is it
right to be financially penalized tens of thousands of dollars per annum for
wanting to give one's children a solid moral and ethical education that will
make them more readily appreciate the democratic and humanitarian ideals upon
which a great country like the United States is built, and be more patriotic as
a result? Is it not precisely the moral values they absorb in a religious
school that will ensure they grow up to be law-abiding citizens and, therefore,
even in the most practical economic sense, of great economic value to their
country? After all, what percentage of kids who receive a solid religious
and moral grounding end up robbing a liquor store and going to prison, or
becoming drug addicts, thereby costing the state tens of thousands of dollars
per year in prison or rehabilitation costs? And yet it is precisely those
parents for whom a religious education is not pivotal, who are prepared to risk
their kids in the dangerous jungles of the American public school system with
its much higher rate of juvenile delinquency, who are given massive financial
incentives to do so. WHEN I resided in England, as the rabbi at Oxford
University for 11 years, my children attended some of the best Jewish day
schools in the world. The cost to me was minimal because the Jewish day schools
have all their secular studies subsidized by the government while the religious
studies are, of course, paid for by the parents. Parents in Israel, of
course, have it much better. As Jewish parents in a Jewish state they can send
their kids to most religious day schools at practically no cost, their tax
dollars being used, rightly, to fund their children's complete education.
But even solidly secular countries like Canada and France, whom Americans
perceive as being hostile to religion, all have government subsidies for
religious schools. Only America, the most religious country of them all,
brutally punishes religious parents by not allowing their hard-earned tax
dollars to fund their children's parochial schools. The net result is
that the exorbitant price of religious tuition has simply become unaffordable
for most American families. Virtually every religious family I know struggles
very hard just to meet the tuition bills. Then, when they need a scholarship, as
virtually every family does, they are subjected to the humiliation of having to
go before scholarship boards and reveal every last family expenditure. Many
throw in the towel and send their kids to public schools rather than face
bankruptcy. The religious majority in the US, who demonstrated their
phenomenal political power in the last election by keeping George W. Bush in
power amid a liberal onslaught to oust him, don't seem to care much about
the issue of parochial school education. Even very religious Christians are
content to leave their children in public schools, with their loose morals and
lax standards, or home-school them – an admirable choice increasingly
common among evangelical Christians but untenable for Orthodox Jewish families,
who typically have much larger families than their evangelical
counterparts. Indeed, the voucher movement in the US, which would give
parents far greater choice for their children's schooling, has little
political support. Which explains why, with a battle raging over the
replacement for the moderate Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor, all
the talk among the faithful is of having a conservative justice who will help to
ban abortion rather than one who will help curb the increasing hostility to God
in America's public spaces. Yet the assault against God and religion
in the American educational scene is a far more pressing issue. Every adult is a
product mostly of the influences of his or her formative years. If America is to
continue to be a mighty and moral nation it will have to produce a generation of
adults who were taught, as children, that life is more than the pursuit of money
and recognition. America's kids require exposure to the religious message
that man is born for service rather than adventure, and to reconcile with his
fellow man as a colleague rather than to endlessly compete against him as an
adversary. In a world of endless strife there is no more important idea than the
religious teaching that all human beings are created in God's image, and all
are therefore brethren. With Bush combating terrorism around the world it
is important to remember that the principal means by which Islamic
fundamentalists foster hatred against the US is by falsely painting us Americans
as godless materialists and decadent infidels. They are wrong, of course.
But it would be good if the Supreme Court finally confirmed the place of God in
American life rather than treating the Creator as an unwelcome
intruder. |